![]() Here the main thing is not to lose your head, revenge is a dish that is served coldly on the table. You just do it and that’s it, you should not have any personal attachments, you regain that inner strength and confidence that you were once deprived of. Revenge is what allows you to take away from someone who owes you. This is a law of nature, there are no moral aspects, this is our psychology. In addition, do not forget the main thing, the person who fucked you with impunity, will necessarily do it again, and will do so until you allow it to him. And this is because you do not know how you should behave in such a situation, you did not get revenge, which means you do not know what to do in such a situation. An elementary example: if you were beaten and you forgave the abusers for this, you will bypass the place where this happened and be afraid of everyone who is trying to beat you. However, the way of a strong person does not allow forgiveness in any way, because the strength of a person depends, first of all, on the strength of his spirit, which is simply impossible when you constantly give up positions. Religion is the means that comforts the weak, and the Bible is the only guide to life for them. ![]() If you approach the question of forgiveness in this way – forgive and you will feel better, then it is better for a person to go not to a psychologist, but to a priest. Therefore, I do not support the idea of forgiving everyone for everything. Any spiritual uneasiness can be removed without any forgiveness, we must only believe in ourselves, and do not put up with defeat. But anxiety disappears with a sense of awareness that your time may come when you will make everyone pay you in full. The sacred fire of vengeance, as far as I remember, these words belong to Al Capone, the Italian mafia, who understood that to forgive is to die slowly. But this does not happen because he did something great, forgiving everyone, no, he just stopped looking for an opportunity to take revenge or return his money.Ī person experiences anxiety not because he was offended, deceived or humiliated, but because he does not see an opportunity to get even for this, and also because his mind is nailed to the moment when he was “ill”. Many psychologists advise forgiving their enemies, debtors, abusers, thereby saving a person from the burden on the soul, and it really works, a person really feels easier. The Bible teaches us to forgive, extolling it over the desire to take revenge, but does not say that a person who forgave an insult, is mentally suppressed, his inner strength leaves him every time he is forced to forgive because of the inability to do something. That’s why you decide how you will live, whether you will revenge or forgive, but I will tell you about how both affect your psyche. I think that in a person who is free in his soul, there must be a choice between revenge and forgiveness. ![]() I’m not going to talk about what is right, revenge or forgiving the offenders and enemies, now I want to stop my attention only on consequences of this or that action. ![]()
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